Providencia Jalbert: Nope. I feel like most women should have a career first and then worry about settling down.
Fritz Hawkey: Yes. It is absolutely too late to find someone. Higher education is ruining the lives of hundreds of millions of women a year. I think that higher education should be outlawed for women. Women need to understand that they're never going to get a man if they're smart. All the time they spend in class could be spent at a cosmetologist or plastic surgeon- much much much much much better use of their time NOT.
Elmo Tervo: I can see why you are asking, and I can see both factors for and not so supporting.If you have lived 30 years on your own, focused on your goals, and not stumbled into someone who is attractive, then you have a pattern fairly established. Lots of people find mates while going to school, some even go to school with the primary goal of finding one. I admire those who finish the career schooling, with and without partners, w! ith and with children. Yes, some finish higher education while raising a family; although life gets much more complicated with this combination.You're educated enough, I won't answer the physical part of the question.And I'm assuming you or someone close to you fits this question. More likely it's a self musing question.I would suggest you broaden your activities to include fun hobbies that involve groups. Try Meetup.com. Take a few more right brain classes, like art and music classes. (I'm trying to not make too many assumptions, just trying to give the most helpful ideas that come to mind. I could easily see asking myself the same question.)I hope the best for you. POF.com is another resource....Show more
Rosella Figliola: Definitely not! Some old-fashioned -- and by old-fashioned I mean extremely prejudiced -- people may think so and that women shouldn't aim so high, but a smart woman is an attractive one. These days, money is a staple in life. You need it to survi! ve; to buy food, to pay bills and eventually to support a fami! ly.People dream of getting good jobs such as being a professional doctor or successful lawyer, among other things, to get this good income and with the previous sexism of women in the earlier years, women have been enjoying the freedom now and they deserve it because they are /equal/ to men. Think about it this way -- men get out of college around that age as well because they dedicate their time to their education. There is someone for everyone, y'know what I'm getting at?Besides, going to college is a good way to make friends and meet new people.If you're worrying about being too late for someone... try not to. Because some people get married in their forties and onwards. You'll be fine....Show more
Gilberto Cratin: Most guys want to have children. Why would a guy go after a woman who gets out of college at 30 and then starts a career, then waits for kids when she is in her mid to late 30s?This may sound harsh, but a woman's prime 'baby making' years are from 20-30.! She would do much better to find a loving man who is a good provider. Have her kids in her 20s and then when they are in their teens, she will be in her 40s. Then move on to more schooling and a career she desires.Which makes more sense to you?1) A woman focusing on school and career in her 20s and 30s, then trying to attract a man and have kids when she is almost 40?2) A woman having & raising children in her 20's & 30s, then switching to a career after the kids are grown up and she is in her 40s?It's common sense, but the feminists will tell women that career should come first.Now, if you are 100% sure you do not want to have children, and you are seeking a man who never wants children, then go ahead with career. Just remember that no children can make for a lonely home much of the time. And it also means never having grandchildren.You may wish to consult some older women about this issue. Not feminists, but older women you know & respect (with and without children)....Sh! ow more
Shamika Schools: when i say 30 not 22 i mean because i'm ! referring to post graduate education. e.g. after a bachelors
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